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Got Discrimination?


By: Jack Levine, President 4 Generations Institute

Are all forms of discrimination wrong?  No, we all have our personal preferences, but I believe that discrimination that denies basic human equality and dignity are wrong. When personal attitude becomes limitation of legal rights, action should be passionately pursued to rectify the situation.

Our nation’s history is chronicled by movements which address discriminatory laws, policies and practices in need of reform.  In fact, with the notable exception of the captive slaves who were brought here in bondage, many of our ancestors were motivated to come to this country because of the  promise  of religious, ethnic, cultural and economic freedoms prohibited in their homelands.

Few expressed the striving for freedom better than the young poet Emma Lazarus who wrote these lines in 1883 which are emblazoned on the pedestal of the Statute of Liberty:

“Give me your tired, your poor,

Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,

The wretched refuse of your teeming shore,

Send these, the homeless, tempest-torn to me,

I lift my lamp beside the Golden Door.”

From the earliest European settlers in the 1600’s and throughout our nation’s history, each generation finds itself confronted by the uncomfortable reality of discrimination. The American Revolution was fueled, in part, by the colonists’ revulsion with the oppressive laws imposed by the autocratic British monarchy.  Thomas Jefferson is credited with penning the enduring words life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness in our Declaration of Independence…even though they only applied to free white men at the time they were adopted!

American abolitionists employed moral reasoning as they sought to eliminate the inhumane system of slavery in the early decades of the 1800’s.  The Civil War was waged as the economic engine of Southern agriculture was being threatened by the anti-slavery reforms promoted by leaders in the North.

As our nation’s borders pushed westward, the subjugation of the Native American people, both by law and military conquest, erupted into numerous battles resulting in treaties that extinguished rights and forced tribes to be exiled onto desolate reservations.  That history is a shameful chapter which we should learn from and never repeat.

Over the decades, our nation has fought numerous foreign wars. To this day, our military forces battle against tyrannical governments whose people are subjected to cruelties we seek to alleviate, at great cost in human life, family stability and economic investment.

Ours in a nation which strives to stand up for others in times of need whether by natural disaster, blight, disease or tyrannic rule. Despite our own challenges at home we serve as a beacon of beneficence when desperation calls. We should welcome that role and continue to accept that responsibility when humanitarian assistance is crucial to survival.

The Tides of Change

My advocacy spirit was nurtured in a household of immigrants whose influence lives on in me today.  My maternal grandparents and my father escaped the brutality of Czarist Russia to find new freedoms and plant new roots for their children. They struggled to live their lives free from being told where they may or may not reside, worship, work, or educate their children. They lived to enjoy the bountiful fruits of United States citizenship.

My Grandma Minnie was an active teenaged suffragist before she became a naturalized citizen in 1919, one year before women were enfranchised as legal voters. She vividly recalled being discriminated against because of her gender and became a life-long advocate for justice and freedom.  In her words, “It’s just not fair to treat people different than I want to be treated.”  She cherished her rights, never missed the opportunity to vote, and assertively confronted any words or deeds by others that smacked of unjust discrimination.

Over the past century, the movements for women’s suffrage, child labor laws, access to public education, worker rights, civil rights and reforms to rectify discrimination against people with various physical and developmental challenges have been fought for on the streets, debated in the chambers of government, and further defined in our courts.

While the waves of natural forces may slowly erode rocky shores, we have the responsibility as thinking and feeling citizens not to wait for social reform to happen on its own. It never has, nor ever will.  We have freedom to express ourselves and have the right to speak openly to each other and to our elected officials about ways we can improve the quality of life for all members of our community.

Now our nation is moving forthright through another phase of historic social reform which I believe requires a new level of attention and action….the rights of people to have their sexual orientation protected against discrimination. While some label the movement “Gay Rights” I prefer the term “Equal Human Rights.”

Questions of how to draft fair laws relating to civil relationships, marriage, adoption, health decisions, personal finance, education policy, housing, employment and military service are being asked throughout the nation and in every state and community. Quite often, there are deep religious, cultural and moral beliefs at the root of opposition to granting equal rights based on sexual orientation.

Change is never easy. Neither is confronting an uncomfortable reality a simple task. But as we look back at the history of discrimination based on race, gender, religion, class, age and disability, it becomes clear to me that we have always been able to overcome differences and modify hateful emotions so that basic human rights will prevail.

While some in our community consider homosexuality sinful, that attitude simply should not extend to legal limitations.  In my view, the tide is turning in the direction of removing legal barriers and promoting reforms that only make sense for individuals, families and our society as a whole.

I believe we have come to a critical crossroads in our nation where a direction needs to be chosen.  Will we travel the high road of equal human rights or muddle along the path of hypocrisy?

If we truly believe that we are all created equal, and we have the inalienable rights to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, it is time to renounce discrimination based on sexual orientation and move forward withour fear, hate and rejection.

To me the answer rests on one simple yet profound principle…as written in Matthew 7.1-2 “Judge not yet ye’ be judged, for in the way you judge, you will be judged.

As I build the 4Generations Institute to promote inter-generational communication for benefit of all ages and stages of life, I am awed by the power of relationships. Just as in families, the health of a community is in the depth and breadth of relationships among those who share common interests.

As an advocate, I’m dedicated to assist those whose mission is creating better policies and more accessible programs to meet the needs of those who count on us, across the generations.

Your voice, your vote and you support of advocacy efforts are vital links to a more positive future….Please take that responsibility seriously.

Never hesitate to reply to me  Jack@4Gen.org

Christine Crosby

About the author

Christine is the co-founder and editorial director for GRAND Magazine. She is the grandmother of five and great-grandmom (aka Grandmere) to one. She makes her home in St. Petersburg, Florida.

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