By Danny Knight
I am 54 years old, and my first grandson Steven is four. He has been such a huge blessing in my life.
I had a below the knee amputation in 2009, and also wear a brace on my other leg. Three years ago I was almost unable to walk at all, used a scooter even around the house, weighed almost 400 pounds, took 40 pills and six shots a day, and was in worsening health. I was just surviving life, not enjoying it.
Steven’s birth made me take a hard look at things. I realized that if I wanted a chance to see him grow up I had to make major changes. I started working towards weight loss surgery. It took awhile, but I had my surgery in September 2012.
I now weigh about 240, the scooter is in the basement with the battery disconnected, I only take about 1/4 the medication I was taking, etc. We just went to Gulf Shores and Steven and I had a blast playing in the pool, walking out on the fishing pier, going on a dolphin cruise, etc.
I shared the “17 Lessons I (re)Learned From My Grandson” at my church. People enjoyed it, and our former pastor encouraged me to submit it to someone for publication. So I am.
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A dark room is not so scary when someone goes with you.
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If you need help ask.
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There is always time to play “just a little”, no matter how tired or busy you are.
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Never hunt monsters alone.
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It is not how well you play the game; it is how much fun you have playing it.
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A hug from someone who is glad to see you will brighten any day.
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Flashlights are fun.
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When you ask for something, a “please” and a grin will help you get it.
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Putting up your toys helps you find them next time.
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If someone offers to help you, let them. It usually makes you both happier.
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If something is “awesome” say so.
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Any day you truly laugh becomes a better day.
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The most important gift is time.
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You don’t have to travel to have an adventure. With a little imagination adventures are everywhere.
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Tell people that you love them. You both will feel better.
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Being nice is always the right choice, even when it takes a little patience.
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Love can allow you to do things you thought were impossible.