5 Tips To Fire Up Your Sex Life
The trouble with being an adult is that we don’t make time for games any more. How often do you get to recapture the fun of playing Let’s Pretend, in which imagination is the main ingredient? How about playtime with our mates? Imagination is the most powerful ingredient in a satisfying sex life. Here are a few tips on firing it up!
Play Sex Games – There are a lot of card games, board games, dice games and more, all aimed at adding a little hot, humorous fun to sex. You can draw a card to discover a new position or roll the dice to connect an action with a body part. Or if you like, play your favorite games, like Scrabble or Monopoly, and set some sexual stakes on the outcome. And don’t forget that sexual standby, Strip Poker.
Start Lying – And by “lying” we mean making up stories. Sexy little stories to turn you and your partner on. We’re not talking about great literature here, just little fantasies involving you and your partner. This is the time to start whispering stuff like that into your sweetie’s ear.
Imagination is the most powerful ingredient in a satisfying sex life.
Lascivious Literature – How about reading some erotica to get in the mood. Erotic stories and novels have become big business lately, aimed at women as well as men, and today’s erotica is hot. These books often have fascinating story lines and interesting characters. Use your sexiest voice and read aloud to each other.
“And The Award Goes To…” If you’ve ever wanted to try acting, now’s your chance. The old game of Let’s Pretend grows up when you both temporarily take on new personas: be a horny pirate, innocent maiden, sex-crazed vamps, stern schoolteacher or anything else that turns you on. This can be no more than just tales whispered in each other’s ears at bedtime.
Go To A Hotel. What is it about hotel sex that makes it so darn hot? Maybe the total privacy, or the impersonal surroundings, or the feeling that there’s nothing else to do but have uninhibited sex? Once in a while, spring for a night away from home – even if it’s just across town. You can even add frills like room service champagne or pay-per-view naughty movies. Don’t forget the “Do Not Disturb” sign!