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Posted on October 4, 2016 by Christine Crosby in BBC, body image, girlguides.com, girls, lloks

Is Your Granddaughter Under Pressure to Look Perfect?

According to a new report on BBC News, girls are under more pressure than ever to look perfect.

Girlguiding has launched a social media challenge to the public to compliment the young women and girls they know on their achievements and personal qualities rather than their looks, using the hashtags #youareamazing and #girlsattitudes on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram.

Dr Carole Easton, chief executive of the Young Women’s Trust, which recently published research suggesting high levels of anxiety and despair among young women, agreed more needed to be done to tackle gender stereotypes, starting from childhood.

“Otherwise we will continue to see lower levels of wellbeing, lower confidence and greater worries about the future amongst young women,” she said.

According to an article by Judith Burns, for BBC News, 

Girls in the UK are markedly less confident about their looks than they were five years ago, research by Girlguiding suggests.

Just 61% of 1,627 seven- to 21-year-old girls polled for the 2016 Girls’ Attitudes Survey felt happy about their bodies, down from 73% in 2011.

Girls as young as seven face “intense and unobtainable appearance pressures to be perfect”, say the authors.

The report says body image is an issue which surrounds girls every day – in the media, via social media and in other people’s attitudes.

Among the 559 seven- to 10-year-olds who took part in the survey:

  • 36% said they were made to feel the most important thing about them was their looks
  • 38% felt they were not pretty enough
  • 35% agreed women were judged more on their appearance than their abilities
  • 23% felt they needed to be perfect

And these feelings were far more prevalent among the more than 1,000 11- to 21-year-olds who took part:

  • 80% felt their looks were the most important thing about them
  • 66% felt they were not pretty enough
  • 93% agreed women were judged more on appearance than ability
  • 47% believed their looks held them back most of the time
  • 61% felt the need to be perfect
Grandparents can have a powerful impact on their granddaughter’s sense of self-esteem

Girls told the researchers lack of body confidence not only stopped them wearing certain clothes and having their pictures taken – but also prevented them exercising, speaking up in class and socialising.

Another of the younger participants called for an end to girls being judged on their bodies and being made to “feel bad about themselves”.

While Liddy Buswell, a Brownie leader aged 18, said she had experienced some of the issues first hand.

“I’ve witnessed girls unwilling to speak to groups because of how they look, I’ve heard girls saying they’ve been called names at school and aren’t confident trying new activities as a result,” she said.

“No girl should have to worry about the way she looks.

“This year’s survey is a damning indication that something needs to be done to tackle this growing issue.”

Jenny Brown, head of the independent St Albans High School for Girls, said the issue of image was “without a shadow of doubt” high on her agenda.

“It is completely entwined with the huge explosion in social media,” said Mrs Brown, speaking at the annual meeting of the Headmasters and Headmistresses Conference in Stratford-upon-Avon.

“The effect of social media could be like a mirror for teenage girls, reflecting their lives back on themselves and exacerbating a natural tendency to be overly self-conscious.”

Schools and parents should encourage girls to “focus on things bigger than themselves” instead and find windows on the world rather than mirrors, she said.

Christine Crosby

About the author

Christine is the co-founder and editorial director for GRAND Magazine. She is the grandmother of five and great-grandmom (aka Grandmere) to one. She makes her home in St. Petersburg, Florida.

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