The Issue: Ever wish you could tell parents or grandparents what changes you would like them to make?   Seriously? How would that really work?    Well, we decided to turn

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The Issue: “No more toys for the grandchildren! We need to do something. We have way too much stuff, too many toys.  They’re everywhere!”     Bet you’ve heard that

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One would think that with parenthood far behind me, the worries associated with it would be in the past as well.  Surprise! As a grandmother for almost nine years, I

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The Issue: While SheSaidSheSaid often addresses parenting challenges between the generations, in honor of National Grandparents Month we’d rather focus on the many gifts that come from having more than

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No, we’re not talking about GRAND’s glasses that rarely get put away in their case.  And it’s not the keys to Mom’s car that she laid down right here –

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The Issue: Expectations about The Role of Grandparents “When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.” (Donald Miller) Sometime, somewhere, someone is going

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The Issue: We both laughed, when we read a comment by author Hope Edleman (Mother of My Mother), “Grandparents are just as likely to be sources of conflict as pillars

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The Issue: Billy Crystal and Bette Midler did it!  Battled with generational child-rearing clashes in their recent movie, “Parental Guidance”.  While the movie puts a humorous face on the whole

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Editor’s Note: this article about the discipline debate is eye opening. What do you think? The Issue: Depends on your definition.  Or is it your age or culture? As reported

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My adult daughter and her two children are going through a change in their lives and need to move in with us for awhile.  Any tips on helping all of

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A parent wrote with a question: How can I encourage ‘Grand’ to listen to a grandchild? While we were working on this topic, it occurred to us that this is

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The Issue:  To Say or Not To Say… By Remy Agee and Blair Selby As most children do, my grandchildren at times erupt in frustration with a swear word…most of

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Food, glorious food!  Whether for nourishment, comfort or a treat, food clearly is a source of contention between the generations of parents.  We know this from conversations with other parents

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The Issue:  When I’m with my grandchildren and their parents aren’t around, I am the ‘adult in charge’.  That is, I’m responsible for all aspects of their safety and well

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I enjoy bringing special things for my grandchildren, when I visit them.  My daughter sees this as spoiling them.  While I don’t go overboard, I view this as making them

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