BY SHELA DEAN It’s true with lots of things – Marriage: Use it or Lose it My married friends keep a joint journal. They each write about everyday things and
“Your brain is primarily a problem solver, going into action only when you give it a specific goal.” BY SHELA DEAN Don’t take it personally but your brain’s not all
By Shela Dean I sometimes feel jealous of the relationship my husband Dale has with our grandchildren. He is more fun than the proverbial barrel of monkeys. One night, when
“If you’re feeling lonely, your spouse probably is too. So don’t be afraid to take the initiative, start the conversation, and be proactive.” BY SHELA DEAN In a recent study,
By Shela Dean People are naturally curious about their ancestors and family history. We’re interested in genetic connections and what mix of DNA made us who we are. I joke
My Scarf Drawer Runneth Over BY SHELA DEAN author of Re-Date Your Mate If it weren’t for scarves, my husband wouldn’t know what to buy. He chooses lovely ones, but
BY SHELA DEAN Whether married or single, celebrating leads to greater happiness. And congratulating GRAND Magazine on its 10th Anniversary creates the perfect occasion to think about how we can
By Shela Deen | To help avoid misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and conflict, tune in and respond to your spouse’s emotions rather than his or her words | Relationships would
By Shela Dean | Dating advice & encouragement for newly single men and women who are grandparents | When my grandmother was my age, she wore sensible tie-up shoes,
Putting your relationship at the top on your holiday to-do list By Shela Dean The holidays. There’s so much to do! Meal planning, shopping, decorating, shopping, making up the guest
A Relationship Survival Guide for the Sandwich Generation How to stay connected when you or your spouse are looking after elderly parents By Shela Dean Caregiving elderly parents
Becoming a grandparent can rekindle, or kill, the romance By Shela Dean When I learned I was becoming a grandmother, I thought, OMG! Am I officially old? Must I wear